The Creative Sky Blog

Support & Insight for Calgary Parents

Warm, evidence-based articles from our child psychologists — on anxiety, ADHD, autism, big emotions, and the everyday moments of raising kids.

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Aggression in Young Children: Hitting, Biting, and Big Feelings

It happens in a blink at the park: another child reaches for the same shovel, and yours shoves them down. At home it's the denied snack, the turned-off show, the instant physical reaction. Underneath the embarrassment is a colder question about what it says about your child, or you. But hitting and biting in young children is communication, not character, and what's really happening is far more hopeful. Here's how to help.

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How to Help a Child With Extreme Picky Eating

Dinner has narrowed to the same five foods, and lately the list is getting shorter, not longer. Every relative has a theory, but the worry under your ribs is starting to feel like more than a fussy phase. Sometimes picky eating is ordinary. Sometimes it's a sensory or anxiety response with a name and a reason, and it isn't about being difficult at all. Here's how to tell the difference and what actually helps.

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ADHD in Girls: The Signs That Get Missed

Her report card says she's bright and capable, if only she'd apply herself. At home you see the other half: the hour it takes to start a twenty-minute assignment, the tears over the project she forgot again. ADHD in girls often looks nothing like the picture most people carry, and that gap is exactly why it gets missed. Here's what's really happening, including a biological reason almost no one explains.

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Selective Mutism: The Child Who Talks at Home but Not at School

At home she never stops talking. At school she hasn't said a single word in weeks. It looks like shyness, but shy children warm up, and this one hasn't at all. What you're seeing is selective mutism, an anxiety condition that locks a child's voice in certain settings, and it's far more understood and treatable than most parents are ever told. Here's what's really happening, and why waiting is the one thing that makes it worse.

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Back-to-School Adjustment & The September Slump

The first week went beautifully. Then, around week three or four, the mornings slowed, the stomachaches started, and your child began dragging through the door instead of bouncing through it. The back-to-school slump rarely arrives on day one. It shows up once the newness fades and a month of invisible effort finally catches up. Here's why it happens, what it looks like, and how to meet it as a season rather than a crisis.

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Homework Battles in Children: What's Really Behind the Fight

The worksheet has sat untouched for forty minutes, and the argument has started again. But homework refusal is rarely about motivation. More often it's a tired child protecting themselves from a task that has come to feel like proof they aren't capable, met at the hour of the day when they have the least left to meet it with. Here's what's actually happening at the table, and how to change the shape of the homework hour.

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The First Goodbye: When a Child Grieves the End of Summer

In a small, sad voice at bedtime, your child says they don't want summer to end. This isn't school anxiety. It's one of a child's first encounters with the truth that good things pass. This piece looks at the tender lesson inside that sadness, and why letting them grieve it matters.

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How to Handle a Child's Grief When You Cannot Take It Away

When a child faces loss, parents often feel helpless and unsure they'll find the right words. This National Grief Awareness Day piece looks at why a child's grief confuses the adults around them, why there are no perfect words to find, and what a grieving child truly needs from you.

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The Weight of Being New: When a Child Starts a Brand-New School

Everyone keeps telling your child how exciting the new school will be, and your child keeps going quiet. Starting somewhere no one knows them means losing the quiet comfort of being known, and grieving the world they left. This piece looks at that hidden weight, and how to help a child begin again.

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The Unknown Adult: Why a New Teacher Feels So Big to a Child

The class list isn't even posted, and the bedtime question has already started: what if my teacher is mean? This piece looks at what a teacher truly represents to a child, why the usual reassurance slides right off, and how to help your child move toward an unknown adult with a little more steadiness.

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What a Child's Wellness Actually Rests On

You can pack the healthy lunches, cap the screens, and hold bedtime, and still watch your child come apart at the end of an ordinary day. This National Wellness Month piece looks at what a child's wellbeing actually rests on, and why it's rarely the thing a checklist measures.

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Managing Summer Screen Time for Kids

Summer offers children more free time than any other season, making screen time an easy way to fill long afternoons. But the challenge often isn't the screen itself—it's what happens after it turns off. This article explores why transitions away from technology can feel so difficult and how unstructured time helps children develop planning, creativity, and confidence.

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Separation Anxiety in Children: When Goodbyes Feel Bigger Than the Moment

Some children struggle with every goodbye, while others separate with ease. Separation anxiety is more than tears at the classroom door—it reflects a child's growing ability to trust that love, connection, and relationships remain steady even when they're apart. Discover why separation anxiety happens, what it can look like, and how parents can support children with confidence and compassion.

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The Voice Inside: When Children Become Their Own Toughest Critic

Children aren't born with a harsh inner voice. They gradually build one as they make sense of mistakes, relationships, and the experiences that shape how they see themselves. This article explores why some children become their own toughest critic and how parents can help them develop a kinder, more balanced view of who they are.

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When Rejection Feels Bigger Than the Moment: Understanding Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) in Children

A child who experiences Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) isn't simply "too sensitive." Small moments of criticism or rejection can quickly become deeply personal, leaving children feeling overwhelmed by experiences others may move past with ease. This article explores what RSD can look like in children, why these reactions happen, and how understanding the emotional experience beneath the behaviour can strengthen connection, confidence, and resilience.

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Why Children Lie: Looking Beyond the Behaviour

A child who lies isn't always trying to avoid the truth. Sometimes they're trying to protect something much harder to explain. This article explores the emotional experience behind why children lie, how honesty develops over time, and why understanding what a child is trying to preserve can change the way parents respond.

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